How long do I have to respond to divorce papers in California?

You have 30 calendar days from the date you were served to file a response. If you miss this deadline, your spouse may be able to obtain a default judgment.

Do I need a lawyer to respond to divorce papers?

No, you can represent yourself (called 'pro se' or 'in pro per'). Many Californians successfully navigate uncontested divorces without an attorney using document preparation services like Paxora.

Can my spouse kick me out of the house immediately?

No. Being served divorce papers does not affect your right to live in your home. Only a court order can require you to leave the family residence.

What Happens in the First 72 Hours After Receiving Divorce Papers?

If you just received divorce papers, you're probably feeling overwhelmed. Here's what you need to know right now, and what can wait.

First, breathe. You have time.

Whatever you're feeling right now is valid. Shock, anger, relief, fear. Sometimes all at once. Here's what matters: nothing happens immediately. You have 30 days to respond, and that's plenty of time to think clearly. The world isn't ending tomorrow. Take a breath.

The next 24 hours: Gather your documents

When you're ready, make copies of important financial documents. Tax returns, pay stubs, bank statements. This isn't about hiding anything. It's about making sure you have access to information you'll need later. If these are digital, download them now. Store copies somewhere safe, like a trusted friend's place or a secure cloud folder.

The next 48 hours: Hold off on big moves

Your instinct might be to act. Move out, close accounts, make big decisions. Try to resist that urge. When divorce papers are filed, both spouses are automatically restricted from transferring property or making major financial changes. Hasty moves can complicate things. The process will address everything in time.

The next 72 hours: You don't have to do this alone

Reach out to one person you trust. A friend, family member, or therapist. You don't need to have answers or know what you need. Just having someone who knows what you're going through can take some weight off. Many people also find divorce support groups helpful, even online ones.

About responding to the papers

You have 30 days to file a response with the court. This doesn't mean figuring everything out in 30 days. It just means filing paperwork that says you're participating. Many people handle their own paperwork, especially for uncontested divorces. Others work with attorneys. Either path works, and you have time to decide.

Your home isn't going anywhere

One of the biggest fears is losing your home right away. That's not how it works. Being served papers doesn't change your right to live there. Property division happens later, and both people have input. No one can force you out without a court order, and courts don't hand those out casually.